I have been seeing my girlfriend for almost 3 months now. We met
in Holland her native country. We have good sexual chemistry,
and are good at pleasing one another’s needs. She really gets
off on oral sex, and normally I do as well, but given her Dutch
heritage, she isn’t big into shaving. Her bush is like a tangled
bundle of fishing line somebody would find at the bottom of his
deceased grandfathers tackle box. After I go down on her, I tell
her I need some water just so I can go to the bathroom to rinse
and floss the loose pubs from my mouth.
Should I tell her the oral sex is on hold until she trims that
beaver?
Or should I not rock the boat seeing as how I’m munching her
18-year-old sister on the side?
I was visiting the in-laws for Thanksgiving dinner this year and
after the feast settled in to an afternoon of beer drinking and
football. That evening after my shower, I stumbled into the room
my wife’s cousin was in and began making sexual advances
mistakenly thinking I was with my wife. Meeting with little
resistance, I had a night of blind, drunken sex not realizing my
blunder until the following morning.
Should I pretend that nothing happened and hope my wife’s cousin
does the same?
Or should I just go ahead and tell my wife her cousin is gay?
I have a wonderful sex life with my girlfriend. She is very open
to new things, and is constantly giving me head when ever we are
alone. Here is the problem. She is a spitter. That is not the
worst of it. When ever we are in bed, and she performs the
"deed", when I finish she spits it in the water cup next to the
bed and leaves it 'till the morning. Half of the time I am the
one takes it and dumps it out!!!
Should I tell her that she and her disgusting habit have to go?
Or should I just leave it alone since I usually dump the cup
into her shampoo bottle?
I have been courting this fine young Catholic woman for about
two years now. She is strong in her convictions to save her
virginity until marriage. Her parents, especially her dad, are
of course strong backers of this, and always drop not-so-subtle
hints about everlasting damnation awaits anybody who enjoys
intercourse before the solemn vows are taken. This is becoming
difficult for me, as I'm not quite ready to make the leap and
ask her to marry me, but darn it, two years with out any "real"
intercourse is killing me.
Should I tell her and her parents to take their fascist
no-sex-religion else where?
Or should I just keep playing along since she doesn't seem to
mind me fucking her in the ass?
I have a wonderful fulfilling sex life with a partner that isn't
too demanding, and loves me unconditionally. But here lately, I
have been intrigued with the idea of bringing in a "third" to
our bed room, and my lover seems unresponsive to it. I am deeply
hurt in the silence that I receive most of the time, but
especially on this topic. I want to talk about it, but all I get
is a blank stare. See this girl at work is really making
advances on me, and I quite frankly am no longer able to resist,
but want my lover to be in on the fun. Talks about this and
other topics all seem to be one sided, and I am afraid that my
lover is losing interest in all of this.
Should I tempt the fates, and start dating this girl from work,
no matter what the consequences?
Or, should I just stay with status quo and keep blowing my dog
every Friday and Saturday night?
I am new to this area, recently starting my new job 3 months
ago. At first I had trouble meeting people, but 3 weeks ago I
met this girl at the club. We've been out several times, I am
very attracted to her, and we both agree the 'chemistry' is
definitely there. Our only conflict has been about her 4 month
abstinence policy she has with new boyfriends. I am finding it
very difficult to abstain, and her no sex policy is making me
feel unwanted and even angry. I am concerned that this policy is
a red flag warning me that she is a control freak who is
unwilling to compromise.
Should I take this as a sign and end the relationship now,
before I become to attached, anticipating her being an
overbearing partner?
Or, out of respect for our love, should I wait out the mandatory
4 months seeing as how I am getting plenty of pussy making porno
movies?
